THIS WEEK'S DEAR JOHN LETTER!
Dear John,
I'm trying to decide if I take the high road or just go low road and get it over with. I have a bunch of weddings in my family this summer. My son is getting married, but four other relatives will also be getting married. They are spaced out pretty well, but two are back to back weeks. We've planned to go to all of the weddings. My aunt just informed me that she will not be able to make it to our son's wedding. I was very OK with that, she's old and has some health issues. Then she tells me we can still visit at my niece's wedding the week before my son's wedding. Then I said, “Wait, you're not able to make it to this one, but you're going to that one?” She said, “It's closer” so I did the work to see how much closer. It's 15 minutes closer. She was also going to be riding with others for both weddings. Now I'm kind of upset. I don't want to cause any issues for my niece. I don't want to be the one to ruin anyone's wedding, so I'm trying to take the high road and just put on a smile and be there for my niece, but does that seem like a heaping pile of bologna to you? I asked her if she had some kind of problem with our son, because this seems petty personal. Oh, she's also planning to be at the rest of the weddings that all land after this one. They are much closer, but I am not looking forward to seeing my aunt at any of these. It seems like she's singled out my son. I have no idea why. She's always been a selfish drama queen, so I'm actually glad she won't be a gloomy dark cloud in the corner of my son's special day, but how should I feel? I've written a letter that I plan to send after my niece's wedding. I do not want to be the reason she doesn't go to her wedding. I'm gonna stay away from the wine at that one, otherwise I might tell her exactly what she needs to hear. Any advice on this one?
Signed – Angry Momma Bear!
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TODAY'S REASON TO PARTY! (special thanks to ListOfNationalDays.com)
German Chocolate Cake Day
https://www.tfrecipes.com/german-chocolate-cocktail/
SURVEYS, STUDIES & SUCH
Hopping on a bicycle may be good for more than just your physical health. A review of 87 studies from 19 countries found that cycling is linked to better moods, fewer symptoms of depression, sharper thinking skills, and stronger social connections. Researchers found the biggest mental-health benefits came from riding outdoors over multiple sessions rather than taking part in a single, or indoor workout. Interestingly, every study that examined cycling’s impact on social well-being reported positive results. The findings suggest a regular bike ride could be a simple way to support both mind and body.
BIG SCREEN-LITTLE SCREEN
Tom Holland opened up about his battle with booze, saying he knew it was time to quit when alcohol started impacting both his personal life and career. He said on Amy Poehler’s “Good Hang” podcast that he would sit in the hotel where he lived and “finish a minibar and go to work the next day,” before quitting alcohol in 2022. From there, it didn’t take long to realize there weren’t many options for people like him in social settings, with everyone else was knocking back drinks while he stood there with a lemonade in hand. That experience inspired him to launch Bero, his non-alcoholic beer brand.
“Heated Rivalry” creator Jacob Tierney will publish a new book about the making of the hit sports romance show. “I’ll Believe in Anything” collects the first season’s annotated scripts and takes readers behind the scenes into the show’s casting, costume design and more. Tierney said his goal was to make it feel “like a natural extension of the story audiences connected with from the very beginning.” I’ll Believe in Anything will be published on Oct. 13, and is now available for preorder.
Will Arnett is set to star opposite Kristen Stewart in Prime Video‘s limited series “The Challenger”. It will chronicle the events leading up to the 1986 Challenger disaster, the investigation that followed, and Sally Ride’s groundbreaking journey as the first American woman in space. In her TV debut, Stewart plays astronaut and physicist Ride. Arnett will play George Abbey who, as Director of Flight Crew Operations for NASA’s Space Shuttle, assigned Ride to the crew of the groundbreaking 1983 space mission.
DID YA KNOW!?
DID YOU KNOW… Some birds can see ultraviolet light. This allows them to see patterns on feathers and flowers invisible to humans. It helps with mating and foraging.
JOKE OF THE DAY
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HEIDI)
SCOOP
OF THE DAY
You’ve heard of the term “fashion victim” — well, apparently that’s a literal thing when it comes to footwear. According to a new survey (of adults in the US), more than half of us (56%) regularly buy shoes we end up regretting…because they’re uncomfortable. In fact, people admitted that in the past few years, they have wasted an average of $279 on shoes they never wear. And the poll found that painful footwear doesn’t just affect the feet; discomfort can linger for up to 2 days, and spread to the back, knees, ankles, and hips. Unsurprisingly, many said that traditionally fun occasions, from nights out, to vacations, concerts, and weddings have all been ruined due to painful, uncomfortable shoes. In light of this, people said they eventually evolved at about age 34 to become a bit more practical, and prioritized buying shoes that are truly supportive. Looking closer at the shoes people buy today, comfort is key in the buying decision, but respondents said that price is the #1 thing that influences their shoe selections, closely followed by supportiveness, durability, and style.
THE MOVIE QUOTE OF THE DAY
If you have a favorite quote.... you can send it to us at the bottom of the page at JohnAndHeidiShow.com
“It belongs in a museum!” — Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade — Indiana Jones (Harrison Ford) — 1989
NEWS TO ME
(FROM HEIDI)
FUN
FACT FOR YOU:
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✓ Drinking one soda a day can biologically age you by as many as 4.6 years.
✓ Attractive politicians typically receive more news coverage than less attractive politicians.
✓ Most people spend 60% of their conversation time talking about themselves. That jumps to 80% while conversing on social media.
✓ Scientists usually omit left-handed people from tests because their brain works differently.
WEIRD NEWS
Scientists say a special ‘breath spray’ made from molasses could help cure bad breath in dogs – while fighting harmful oral bacteria at the same time. The experimental deodorizer, developed from a sugarcane byproduct, contains natural compounds called polyphenols that neutralize odor-causing molecules and slow the growth of stink-producing microbes. In tests involving 10 dogs with severe bad breath, researchers found the spray noticeably reduced mouth odor, especially after daily use over 30 days. Experts say canine bad breath can signal dental disease or other health problems. Researchers hope the eco-friendly treatment could eventually offer pet owners a cheaper, greener way to improve dogs’ oral health and freshen their breath.
QUESTION OF THE DAY
23% of people agree: THIS thing, which you may do on the weekend, is an instant mood booster. What is it?
Answer: Getting a car wash
SOMETHING SPECIAL WITH HEIDI SMALL
(FROM HEIDI)
THE LIST
THE OLDEST ROCKERS ON TOUR THIS SUMMER:
1. Ringo Starr - turns 86 in July
2. Mike Love (Beach Boys) - 85
3. Bob Dylan turning 85
4. Paul Simon - 84
5. Randy Bachman (The Guess Who) - 82
5. Jon Anderson - 81
6. Eric Clapton - 81
7. Micky Dolenz and Rod Stewart - 81
8. John Fogerty – 80
9. Alice Cooper, Brian Johnson (AC/DC), and Burton Cummings (The Guess Who) – 78
10. Robert Plant – turning 78
11. Bruce Springsteen, Rick Springfield, and Lou Gramm (Foreigner) - 76
12. Steven Van Zandt (E Street Band) - 75
13. Michael McDonald (Doobie Brothers) - 74
14. Robin Zander (Cheap Trick), Gil Moore (Triumph) and Pat Benatar - 73
15. Geddy Lee and Alex Lifeson (Rush) – 72
(And let’s not forget that 93-year-old Willie Nelson has a full summer slate planned, including headlining his own Outlaw Music Festival!)
GOOD NEWS
After Losing His Wife, This Retired Rhode Island Man Found Healing by Turning Other People's Trash Into Treasure. https://www.sunnyskyz.com/good-news
