Show Notes for Thursday January 23, 2020

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Dear John,

My husband has lunch with another woman a few times a month. I've never had an issue with it until recently. They worked together for about 15 years. He used to refer to her as his “work wife”. I've spent time visiting with her many times at their company Christmas party and other work events. She took a different job about a year ago. I had no idea they were still getting together for lunch. It was about a month ago that a friend told me he saw my husband with “another woman” at lunch. When I asked him about it he told me right away who it was. He said they still get together for lunch often and I shouldn't be concerned. My friend thinks there's something MORE going on, but I trust my husband. After thinking about it more, I'm beginning to wonder if I should though. What do you think? Is this OK? Should I be worried?

Signed – Should I Be Concerned?

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