Show Notes for Thursday, October 29, 2020


Dear John,

My girlfriend and I are on polar opposite sides of the political spectrum. We get along about everything else, but that one thing is something we disagree about. I've been trying to soften her to see things my way... she has tried to beat me into seeing things her way! Only kidding about that part. We are both pretty strong willed. We root for the same sports teams. We like the same movies. We enjoy the same food. We even drink the same drinks. How is it that everyone tells me to break up with her over this one thing. POLITICS! I understand that it's a big thing, but can we make it work? I hope so. I want to propose to her. I thought it would be funny to do it on Election night. I'm ready for it and that may be a way for her to have a good night, even if her candidate doesn't win. It would also be a good thing for me if my side does not win. What are your thoughts? Should I wait until later? New Years? Should I listen to my friends find someone that agrees with me on politics and hope that the rest will work too? Let me know what you think!

Signed – OppositesAttracted

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