THIS WEEK'S DEAR JOHN LETTER!
My daughter wants to buy a home with her boyfriend. I asked why they don't get married first. She wants to wait until she can have a big wedding, not sure if that will happen in 2021. I suggested that she get married in a small ceremony now and then do a big wedding later. She wants to spend the money they had saved for the wedding on a down payment for a home. I have two problems with this. First, I'm old-fashioned and think they should be married before they live together. Right now they both rent apartments and they have been working from home. They're thinking that they could save money by moving in together in a home that they would be buying instead of renting. That all makes sense, but I think my second problem is a bigger issue. What if they break up? How do you decide who gets the home if they have both been paying on it? I think it sounds like a nightmare of a problem if that were to happen. I love my daughter's boyfriend. I think they will be an amazing couple, but I think they should wait to buy the home after they get married. Do I sound like I'm out-of-touch with this opinion? My ex-husband likes the idea, but I think he likes it because I don't like it, so I'm not putting too much weight on that. What do you think? Any of your facebook followers have some advice from a legal perspective?
Signed – MommaBearWhoCares
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