Show Notes for Thursday, January 21, 2021


Dear John,

I have a little bit of a dilemma. I'm trying to decide what to do. I have a crush on my very best friend from the time I was about five years old. We have never dated. We have always been great friends. Our parents are good friends, so our families have been together for so many events in our lives. We have dated other people and have double dated a bunch, but have never dated each other. I'm single and he is too. I told my mom and she said we would be perfect for each other. My dad said he thinks it a bad idea. He said it would mess up the relationship for our two families if we break up. I think we would actually be a perfect couple. I remember talking about this with him in like 8th grade. He said someday we would get married and have kids, but then we grew up and it never felt right. Now I'm single and he's single and I think it makes sense. Should I talk to him? My dad said he's Ducky. I don't know what that means, but I think he may be my sole mate!

Signed – Friend Forever?

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