Show Notes for Thursday, May 20, 2021


Dear John,

Not sure what to do. My best friend's boyfriend was hitting on me, so I told her and she was mad at me. We have not talked for about three weeks, which makes me sad. Today I looked on a dating app I'm on and her boyfriend is on there. I looked at her fb page and she just posted a photo with him last night. I already got a screen shot of his page on the dating app, in case he deletes it, but should I even say something? Last time I mentioned that he was flirting with me she quit talking to me.... I want to say something, but I also don't want to push my friend away any more than I already have. Any idea on what I should do?

Signed – confused friend

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