Show Notes for Thursday, January 20, 2022


Dear John,

I just found out that my sister has not told her kids that she was married before. They know her husband was married before because he has a daughter from that marriage. My sister was married for a few years, but she did not have kids with her first husband. I mentioned her first husband by name and she gave me a weird glare. When the kids left the room, she told me the don't know anything about that. She doesn't think they need to know. I said it seems like a weird thing to keep from them. She's mad at me because I said it felt like she was lying to her kids. She disagrees, but I feel like it's a lie by omission. Not sure what advice I need, but I wonder if this seems odd to you two as well. Am I the weirdo on this?

Signed – ConfusedSister

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