Show Notes for Thursday, May 26, 2022


Dear John,

My daughter in almost nine. She asked for a cell phone and I told her no. Recently she spent the weekend with my mother-in-law and came home with a cell phone. Her grandma said she would pay for the phone, but that's not the point. I said she's not ready for a phone, but my mother-in-law decided on her own to get my daughter a phone anyway. What is the right thing to do? I was venting to my own mother about it and she said it was kind of a nice thing for her to do it, but she also agreed that there should have been a conversation before that happened. What should I do?

Signed – PhoneProblems

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