THIS WEEK'S DEAR JOHN LETTER!
My wife and I were married 20 years ago. Our anniversary is coming up in a few weeks and we're taking a little vacation to the same place we had our honeymoon. I wanted to bring our kids along, but she said that would be weird. I secretly want to renew our vows and make it another whole celebration. We've been through quite a bit in our twenty years. I stood by her side through some tough medical issues. She was with me through the loss of my mother and father. We've had ups and downs, but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. How do I convince her to let the kids come with us? I would have a separate room for them. We can finally afford to do this. DO I just tell her why I want to bring them? It would ruin the surprise, but would that be better?
Signed – Madly In Love
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