Show Notes for Thursday, September 29, 2022


Dear John,

I've been married to my husband for ten years. We were both married before as well. He has adult children and I do as well. I just found out that my husband has been sending his daughter money every month for the last five years. We have never talked about this. I only found out because she called and asked me if he was going to stop by so she could pay her rent. I was a little confused. She said he has paid her rent for half a decade. Meanwhile she is working a part time job and partying most of the time. My kids all have jobs and pay their own way. His son also has a job and pays his own way, at least I think he does, who knows! I'm so upset about this. I feel like he has been lying to me for all this time. I knew he helped her a little, but I thought it was paying for gas so she could come visit and things like that. I had no idea that he was paying for her rent and more. My son needed some help during COVID shutdowns and he helped him do some paperwork to get assistance elsewhere. I was happy that he helped him at the time, but now it looks like a slap in the face compared to his daughter's handouts. How do I deal with this? Do you think it's wrong for me to be upset? What else is he keeping from me? What do you think would be the correct response to this whole thing?

Signed – Mad Wife

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